One day your life will flash in your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.

“One day your life will flash in your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.”

 

Make special, these are two words on which we works lot.  We want to make everything special like our appearance, our career , our Home, everything,  Same thing i want to do…..

So here I am telling you, what i did special, This is Nitin , starting his story now… Oops Nitanjali Story……

Uske gharwalo aur mere gharwalo me koi purani dushmani nahi thi. so yeh 1980′s ki story nahi hai.

maine jab use pahle baar dekha tab mujhe kuch nahi hua, i just ignore her….

So in actual even i don’t know when it starts,  In this story, pls try to find at which time it starts.

kahani kahan se shuri hui pta nahi chala, par baat kahan se shuri hui btata hoon, Yeh meri junior thi, just like all other juniors.  Aagey ki kahani me kismet ne mujhke kafi baar fansane ki koshish ki par main kafi baar bacha , let’s see

Twist1: Mera ek dost tha kapil khatri yeh uski cousine something thi. Usne mujhse kaha pls help her in study, I had no experience of teaching so I simply said, yaar main nahi pda sakta. Baat khatam.

Twist2: Mera ek dost hai MICkY, Who bhi mera junior tha. usne bhi mujhse kaha mujhe kuch Course  cover kara de, mujhe nahi aata , par who dost hai isliye try kiya. Fir who ek din bola uski classmate ko bhi cover karna hai. Maine poccha kaun ? usne kahan anjali..  Shayad mujhe tabhi samjh jana chaiye tha, Kismat apna game set kar rahi hai…, par main samjh nahi paaya. Main dono ko padata tha. Fir uske baad main bhool gya, koi anjali bhi hai aur apna BCA complete karke MCA Karr ha tha. Who Alag jagah se MCA kar rahi thi. Dono ka koi contact nahi tha lekin Kismat jaise koi na koi bahana dhoondh rahi thi humein contact karane ka.

Twist3: Mera ek aur dost hai  Vasu , Vasu anjali ab class mate theh. Isko Programming me koi help chaiye thi which I sort gain, But is baar bhi main apni kismet ki ek aur koshish fail karke aagey chala gaya. Main fir bhool chukka tha koi anjali bhi hai.

Twist4: On a day anjali called me for job, yhana bhi main kismet ko dhokha de diya tha, maine Uska refrence job rajnish (mera ek aur dost ) ki company me lgawa di .

Twist5: Lekin Ab Kismat thak chuki thi aur meri kismet likhne wala bhi. Ab un dono ne planning ki who phi perfect. So that Mr. perfectionist  is baar na bach paayein.Aur is baar main bachne wala nahi tha She was working in delhi now & I was working in Noida. I was quite happy in my life & she was also.

Fir mobile devta ne important role play kiya, aur as a wrong recipient I sent a message to anjali instead of amit rana my friend. That was the day shayad jahan se kahani shuru hoti hai par shayad. She called me back, I said it was not for you. Par uske baad hum usually phone pe baat karte theh. Aur ek purana dialogue bhi likh deta hoon.” Now we were only just good friends”

Par main dheeray -2 relaize kar rha tha ki, Jyadaatar baat main apne is naye dost se hi kar rha hoon. Shayad us waqt Mr Love ka janam ho rha hoga mere andar, tabhi Mere andar ke Mr. perfectionist ne kaha “alert alert alert”,

Mr. nitin shayad aap galt tarf ja rahe hain, maine Mr. perfectionist se kaha “Nahi yaar I know we are good friends only & from now onward I will share my talks with other friend also”. Bas sala yahin Mr. perfectionist ko pahli baar ignore kiya. Aur tabhi meri kismet aur Kismat likhne waley boley “tu gya beta ab.”

Maine jaisa socha tha , main waisa kar nahi pa rha tha. Main ab sari baatein use hi kiya karta tha. I was feeling that I have been cut from rest world. Ab meri life me do hi cheejey thi,Ek mera computer jis par main kaam karta tha aur doosra mera mobile jisse main baat karta tha. But I was scared that I would fall in love, then I decided to check every step so that I can avoid fall. But I was wrong. Do you know one thing, in this world what is most powerful force, I can bet that is only “Love”.

Ab main is force se lad rha tha, par shayad yeh mere bas ki baat nahi thi. Main isse harta jar ha tha aur pareshan hone laga tha. So I thought why should not I use anju also in this. We both will fight again this.

Ab maine plan banaya ki jo mere sath ho rha hai hai aur main feel kar rha hoon anju ko bta deta hoon, Who isme help karegi aur main bach jaoonga. I told to anjali that I am scared, I will fall in love with you

She said “Bhaiya mujhe maaf karo” ha ha…., how can I forget those words. Maine kha meri maa main prupose nahi kar rha hoon, main bta rha hoon so that if you found something like that alert me. She said now fine and we are only friends. Main bola “yahi to main kah rha hoon”. Aur humne decide kiya hum ab kam baat kiya karenge. That was again a mistake.

Next week, humne baat nahi ki , aur main bechan ho gya tha, jaise ki “abhay deol ki koi movie na dekhne par hota hoon”.  But now I have no choice.

 

Cricket kheloon to slow & straight bowl pe bold.

Street fighter me Blanka bhi pit deta tha.

Had to tab hui jab gajar Ka halwa bhi tasty nahi laga 🙁

 

Sahi kaha tha galib ne “warna aadmi to hum bhi kaam ke they” Main dosto ke sath musoori ghumne chala gya shayad man bhatak jaye. Par yaar sach bta rha hoon, jitna bhag rha tha na utna hi uski aur jar ha tha. Ab aisa lag rha tha jaise ki main apne andar kisi se lad rha hoon.

Ab mere andar do image ho chuki thi Mr. Perfectionist & Mr. Love

Mr Perfectionist Who is best in every situation

Mr Love Who is most powerful force of world

Lekin in dono ke beech me main piss rha tha, Ek mujhe kisi aur kheench rha tha to dura doosri aur.Oh my god that was horrible situation of my life.

But every time I was trying to judge is this we call love ??????  But no satisfactory answer I got. Tab maine jana hum kisi rishtey ko naam kab dete hain, to pta chala that all relationship was already given to me. I have rights only for creating one relationship & that is friendship. I wasn’t allowed by this system to create a love relationship. Kyonki yaar hamari society ka structure aisa nahi hai, sir ji yeh india hai aur India me bhi aap UP me ho. Yeh pahli cheez jo maine mahsoos ki.

Par main galat tha, pyar bhi ek aisa rishta hai jo tum nahi banate. Tab mujhe rishto ki nayi definition mili.

o    Kuch rishtey humein janam se miltey hain

o    Kuch hum banate hain jinhe dosti kahte hain

o    Par pyar ek aisa rishta hai Jo apni marzi se banta hai, bas tum use follow karte ho, bas follow. Who khud kisi aandhi ki tarah tumhein chala rha hota hai. And you are not capable to do something against that force.

Main bas us force se hi lad rha tha. Ab main haar maan rha tha aur anju ko prupose karne ki tyarii kar rha tha. But wait a sec… prupose aur main,

Mr. perfectionist ko to heart attack aa jayega  aur Mr. Love Bhangra karenege.

 

To be continued…

 

Hum most of the time madiro me hi miltey the kyonki use who hi jagah pasand thi aur Woh wahan baithke mata ke bhajan gaati thi aur mere background me Yash chopra ka “le gai le gai dil le gayi” chalta rahta tha,

Bilkul hi different sundar bhi susheel bhi, Complete shaadi material girl.

Next Noon I made a call to anjali & said

“Anju tu shadi kab kar rahi hai ? she replied may be this year & tu ?

Main bola confirm next year ( Jaise ki hamare paas to rishto ki line lagi hui hai bas choose karna hai, Dono jhooth bol rahe the aur dono ko hi pta tha life is so funny )

Ab sala Ego issue kaun propose kare  kyonki baki zindgi who hi sunega aur tab to yeh halat the ki “Pran jaye , chae vachan jaye Par ego na jaye”. Chalo dkhete hain pahle kiski ego khtam hoti hai.

Then one day she called me and said uska rishta pakka ho gya

Abayyyy    yaaaaaar!!!!!

Fail gya Raita…

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Ban gaye sajan ke sanjay dutt  Ab jao gardan tedi karke iski shadi me

 

Joke apart But kuch bahut bada sa miss ho gya mahsoos kiya fir khud ko smaeta congrats kaha aur bola kal baat karenge aaj busy hoon.

Raat ko sad song chalaye(“tujhse naraz nahi zindagi , hairan hoon main”) balcony me baitha rha akela Main tab 8th floor pe rahta tha, 2 baje tak bahar baitha rha aur Mr. love ki galiyaan sunta rha

Fir 2 baje Mr. perfect ki awaz aayi “Ghonchu hai tu”,  Itni feelings ek tarafa nahi ho sakti . Ladki blood test kar gayi tera aur tujhe pta bhi nahi chala

Main socha abay sahi me yaar aur fir Mr. perfect kah rahe hain baat to sahi hi hogi warna inki perfect giri nikal doonga saari.

Ek dum SMS bhej diya: kal tera hone wala dulha  11baje GIP me milega…

Aur uska agley din phone aa gya & she asked “tujhe kaise pta chala? ”

Main fir hero ban gya bola tune kya soch tu yeh bolegi aur mujhe yakin ho jayega fir main raat bhar sad song sunoonga  (Hee Hee )

Fir usne bahut poocha tumhe 100% confirm kaise ho gaye.

Ab ussay in MR. love aur Mr. perfect ki story btatata to woh mujhe pagal samjh kar tabhi chali jaati, toh woh thodi bhakti type hai bol diya ki meri shiv ji se baat hoti hai aur thodi der me woh maan bhi gayi.

So ab sab kuch set…

Oh o hello wait, wait!  Neechay aa ja

Abhi to picture shuru hui hai, woh to numbering ho rahi thi.

Ab hero banna hai, Ab to mujhe hi nahi pta kis kis ko patana hai

 

Shuruaat apney hi ghar se…

Dahn tan na (picture ke climax wali tune baj rahi thi tab) ……

Dheeray -2 sabko bta diya par yaar sab hi naraz sabne hi mna kar diya. Pta nahi kya-2 suna un dino maine.. don’t want to think & write.. (Skip… skip..)

Jis -2 ko btaya tha sab ne mna kar diya tha even dosto ne bhi,  Chotu(Manmohan my frn) ne bhi mna kar diya. Saley dost bhi samjhdaar nikley..

Same with anjali

Aur dono ke gharwalo ne brahmastra bhi chal diya

“Tumhari wajah se tumhare chote bahi bahno ki bhi shadi nahi hone ki”…..

Yeh to master stroke tha hum dono ke liye

jab bhi uske baare me sochta tha plus me chote bhai bahn bhi dikhai dene lage

same problem usey ho gayi.

One day she called & said uske papa ki tabiyat khrab ho gayi hai bahut , hospital mein hai. Some BP problem…

Oh shit

I make her calm & ask her to take care of her father & I m with you whatever I can do I will do.

Aisa lga yaar: kya kar kya rha hai be,

Itna selfish hai tu ?

sabko parshan kar rakha hai sirf apni khushi ke liye..

Sab jo bna sab toota…

Fir sab khatm

Fir parshan ho gya..

Then Mr. love asked: Parshan Kyon hoon ?

Me: I lost my love…

Mr. Love: bcz it has I that means your ego hurt.    is it ?

Me: I like her so much.

Reply: Then it is only attraction?

Me: yes u r rite why should I cry, my moto is that she should be happy with me or without me & that was the moment when I understand Love.  & “yes it is love” That moment define love to me

Parents get happy when their child go abroad for a better future they din’t get upset that who will take care us or we can’t see him now

So Love is all about giving ur everything to ur love and expecting nothing.

 

So Reality accept karte hue humne sab khatam kar diya & wish each other best of luck & close the chapter

Woh din kuch alag sa tha, she was showing that she is normal using her smile to hide the tears and I was taking long breathe from mouth to show off that I am also fine.

 

Fir sab kuch pahle jaisa chalne laga bas main ek feeling ke sath jeer ha tha yeh sacrifice Society ke liya tha na ki hamari family ke liye..

Aur Pta hai sabse buri feeling kya hai

It’s not failure

it’s not loosing

or anything else

It is being compulsion

Jab aap itne mazboor ho jao ki chah ke bhi kuch na karo,  who hi bura hai baki sab me aap fir se try karoge at least hath pe hath rakh ke nahi baithoge, result jo bhi hoga par aap fir se karoge fir se

Ab main hath pe hath rakh kar baitha tha & that’s not me. Aur aise hi udaas sa hapur station pe jake baith gya

Ro nahi rha tha baki sab tha kyonki yeh sab 24 ghante ke liye mere sath tha..

 

Fir Mr. perfect ki awaaz aayi chal ab anjali ko leke aate hain

Kya matlab (with smile I replied)

You will help me to get my love

He Said Yes because it is true one..

me: Par main aise nahi laoonga woh ghodi-baja, dosto ka drama sab theater chaiye.

Mr.perfect replied with smile: tu chinta mat kar “Nitin weds anjali” ke card chapengey. Tabhi main Mr. perfect hoon  😉

 

Aray yaar fir twist. Bcz agar Mr. perfect mere sath hain to kuch bhi hoga kuch bhi.After all he is the best thing in me.

Ab mera best mere sath tha shayad ise god bhi kah sakte hai ya kuch aur par ab woh jo bhi hai mere sath hai, ab main yeh impossible bhi possible karne wala hoon.

I was quite confident, maine ekdum poccha jaldi se planning btao

Woh bole 2 ko hi to patina hai Ek apne baap Ko aur ek Uske

par itna easy hai kya ?

Yes

 

Maine bhi brahmastra chala diya ha.. ha.. (Master stroke given by Mr, perfect )

I called to anjali & said  Shiv ji is saying we will get marry for sure.

She was so happy & confident that shiv ji kah rahe hain to ho jayegi 😉 . Maine use bhi brahmastr de diya.

We both told to our parents that :

“We would neither talk nor meet to each other but would not get marry to anyone else.”

Aur humne aisa kiya bhi, batein karne bhi band kar di bas finger cross karke baith gaye the hope ke sath.

And that day came on diwali 2008,  picchu(my sala) called me that papa wants to meet with u.

Yehhhhhhhhh

Kya karoon , kaise boloon, kya pahnoo…

Then Mr. perfect bole: relax beta, Woh tujhe tolenge aur tu bas apnay exact weight se tul ja baki tujhe koi fail nahi kar sakta

Main man hi man muskuraya, yaar yeh bhi impress hai mujhse to.. ladki ka baap to ho hi jayega

Anyway ab main cool tha kyonki ab kuch karna hi nahi tha jaisa tha bas waisa hi tha no preparation nothing. Main gya unhone mujhse baat ki ..

Anju us waqt apne papa ke barabar me baithi thi aur uska hero exam de rha tha. Life ka sabse typical exam tha aur main answer diye jar ha tha(woh bhi Mr. Perfect & Mr. love ki lifeline use kare bina) .

Fir result aaya aur who hi hua jo  hona tha , Main pass tha.

Number aaj tak nahi pta cahle (hee hee). Abhi bhi unse kabhi poochta hoon to sasur ji hans dete hain par number nahi btatae.

Fir kya parents meeting hui aur hamari shadi tay ho gayi thi….

 

A proper arrange marriage….

 

Kya  kya , Pure hapur me halla mach gya

Jaise ki Ek Alien & Human ki shadi hai bhai  ha ha ha ha ha

Bhanu(Mera chota bhai) btata tha ki woh kisi dukan pe jata hai to use poochte hain ki tum usi nitin ke bhai ho na jo love marriage arrange kar rha hai.

Confirm to nahi par shayad yeh hapur ki pahli aisi arrange proper marriage thi.

Bas ab us din ka intzaar ho rha tha.

Beech-2 me twist attey they par mujhe pta tha ab yeh shadi shaktiman bhi nahi rok sakta kyonki yeh kuch pahle se likha hua tha jo ho rha hai

 

ex2:

 

anjali ka msg ayaa . yeh shadi nahi ho sakti mujhe bhul jao

I replid: OK bbye

 

Then she called: “tumhe iska matlab samjh nahi ayaa , not possible yaar”

me: ok thek hai. Next janam bol ?

she: Tum to pagal ho & she smile & I felt that smile over phone

 

ex1:

 

Engagemnt ke liye jaa rahe they, tab anjali ka sms aaya tha “Engagment cancel kar do, main nahi aa sakti”

BP low hone ke sare symptoms bina google kare hi pta chal gaye the….

I replied: Main ghar se chal chuka hoon poori family ko leke , Can’t ask them to go back..

Poorey rastey finger cross karke bahar dekhta rha aur imagine kar rha tha ki agar woh log nahi aaye to  jiju ko kya kahoonga, bapu se kya-2 sunoonga…

 

Finally Madam aayi maine poocha to boli : “Woh acctual me seer me mehndi lagayi thi aur paani chala gya tha” Tabhi man kra Ring- Wing baad me , pahle ya to apna sar phod le ya iska..

 

Aur shadi ki to poocho mat usme main hi ladki ka baap tha ur ladke ka bhi, baki sab to tension free they, hoti ho to ho jaye nahi to koi baat hi nahi hai…..

 

Fir shadi ka din aaya ,mere sarey woh dost meri barat me naach rahe the jo kahte the yeh ho nahi sakta , chotu durgesh etc…

 

Main  Shadi me pahuncha aur baitha fir anjali aayi  aur stage pe milte hi main bola: dekha shiv ji ne kha tha aur ho gya. And we both smile….

 

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